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Fix That Ceremony Wording Headache?

How to keep it simple and make your wedding ceremony wonderful!

your vows with sandy bottom

Ceremony Workding for a wedding is part of a discussion that Sandy usually gets asked Sandy Bottom helps you through ceremony wording and how its is placed during a typical service and ceremony.

Your vows make a difference and writing them can seem almost impossible expecially if your shy, or you just dont like being infront of a huge amount of people declaring your love.

Simple steps outlined here can help make all the difference.

 

Ceremony Wording Help

Keep it simple, yep we have heard this time and time again, but the truth is in the end sometimes your ceremony becomes so basic you might as well just signed the paperwork and forgot the whole ceremony.

The Intro

In your ceremony wording you need to remind yourself that this is the time to remind people why are they at your wedding?

Its also a nice way to also let the “Others” know a little about yourself,

How long have you been together, what do you love about each other, and what makes your day more special than any other.

Thinking about your wedding, everyone wants to be know just the basics, such as

where did you meet,

where were you born.

The main reason for doing this is to remind people that weddings are a piece of history, its a mile stone in your life but also important piece in time

To Be Or Not To Be?

That is the question?

Personally I love bringing it all together with a bit of romance, music, poetry, or anything you want.

Just dont make it go on and on for ever…

Your ceremony is a magical way of remembering special people in your life such as the children, mothers and fathers and remember those who have passed in our lifes that were so special.

Sometime we like to take a pause during a ceremony to remember that special person.

Its important to remember that even though its nice to remember every single person from your family, its your wedding and we have plenty of time to remember them over a cold drink at the end of the day.

 

Make you Ceremony Magic

Find that something special that would make your days ceremony bring everyone together. Find a place in your ceremony that discusses and reflects who you both are. Then think about how can you use this ritual symbol special in years to come. 

Your day is something that should define who you are as a couple. No two wedding have to be the same so think about how you can make yours all about you. 

Yep I take thee, I will take thee, or what ever thee wants I will say in my vowls.

There are some small legal vowls that have to be said, but taking that into consideration, its a lovelly way to declare your love for each other, and a way of sharing this with others.

Here is some good examples of writing your vows and how they make sense

https://www.thespruce.com/sample-wedding-vows-3489433 if your really having problems why not contact me and we can walk through your vows and how they can effect your day. https://sydneydragcelebrant.com.au/contact-us/