The expectations of a GLBTIQ Weddings?
what to think about on your special day
Im Queer
and
Im Here
Is it a expectation that just because your a part of the GLBTIQ+ Community that your wedding or ceremony needs to be different?
The answer?
YES –
Glbtiq Weddings and the church
For so many years Marriage has been dominated by religious expectations, rules and regulations. While I have not problems with “God” personally I do believe that everyone has the right to celebrate their love in anyway they want to. Why should anyone tell you that you must follow a manmade rule book on how to celebrate your love.
For those who are religious, their are many ways of bringing the bible into your service with or without a church, and thats another story.
Your GLBTIQ Wedding is an extension on who you are and how you work.
Its a declaration to the world, your friends and family on why you love someone. So why would you choose to be just like everyone else?
I ask couples which parts of your wedding would you like to be idealistic?.
The fairy tail image of you walking down the isle, the amazing big bridal gown, the sounds of the bells as you arrive.
These magical moments can always be prepared into your wedding ceremony no matter where.
If all of that almost kills you, then why not create a image that you would like. The big pool, the jazz band, your pretty lights reflecting on the water, the little rose petals that make a line along the path to a beautiful little patch next to the trees.
Hey its your day, not mine, Im just helping you dream! have a look at Equally wed for some great inspirational ideas
There is very little I can say more, except just be yourself.
Create something that is individually yours, it doesnt need to be expensive, or over the top to be memorable, but it does need to be individually yours.
Think about?
What is the reason why were getting married?
What is the story we would like to feel in our wedding day, how would be it a extension of our wedding day?
How will our wedding day feel, what vibe do we want to create?
How much do we have to spend, and what is our budget before we plan?